My Homeschooling Secret Weapon

My Homeschooling Secret Weapon

I’m not a worrier.

I frequently quote Corrie Ten Boom to my children; “Worry does not empty tomorrow of sorrow, it empties today of strength”. I have plenty of weaknesses, but worrying is not my cross to bear.

I also tend not to care much what people think of me. That goes hand in hand with worrying. I guess you could call it confidence. I’m quiet, and I’m rarely (uh, never!) the life of the party, but I know my value and I know that I can educate my children better than anyone else.

That’s why, when I began homeschooling, much to the consternation of a few family members and neighbors and friends, I continued anyway. It’s also the reason that I didn’t really worry when my sixth child wasn’t interested in reading at age five, or six, or even seven, really. I knew he’d come around.

Fear and worry can prevent people from moving forward. It can prevent them from planning, from executing plans and from taking action. When you worry, you are focused on your fears instead of on your life. You’re distracted and giving the people you care about only a fraction of your attention.

My husband is a huge worrier, and one of my daughters tends to worry about things. So I completely understand that mindset, too. Understanding both sides has shown me, over and over, what a priceless gift the ability to not worry about things is.

I’ve received innumerable emails from moms just like me, but who feel inadequate or insecure or worried over different aspects of homeschooling. Most of these moms are focused on what their children can’t do.

Will my son ever really learn to read fluently?

Why are his times tables not clicking?

Maybe I’m the problem. Should I find a tutor? Should I send him back to school?

Am I failing this child?

What if I totally mess this homeschooling thing up and my children never get into college or function in the real world?

All of these thoughts are based on fear and worry. We can spend our lives running away from things or running toward them. Fear feeds our negativity and makes us want to avoid things, instead of encouraging us toward better things. Fear causes procrastination and an inability to make decisions.

It’s pretty obvious that fear and worry are not desirable traits, and I feel blessed not to struggle with them.

Let’s talk about my struggles.

I always bite off more than I can chew. My mantra is “How hard can it be?” It is always, inevitably harder, and then I get irritable, and we all know that when momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.

I’m not naturally good with people. I’m terribly introverted and somewhat socially awkward. I’ve even had to train myself to be more physically affectionate toward my own children! I never know the appropriate thing to say, or how to comfort a grieving person.

Patience is not my middle name and sometimes I have a short fuse. I’m great at organizing and scheduling and accomplishing, but I tend to hold myself and others (even tiny people) to extremely high standards. That can actually be both bad and good, depending on the situation.

See what I mean, though? It’s not all pretty.

But it’s me.

My confidence combined with my lack of worry and my ambition is most certainly a huge factor in my children’s numerous accomplishments. At the same time, a couple of my children have also inherited my social skills, or lack thereof.

It’s about more than attributes, though.

My kids love of math was instilled in them by me. I love math!

Guess why my kids are musicians?

Guess why they all come running for science?

Those are me, too!

I realize that it might sound terribly conceited, but I’m willing to take that chance, because I feel so strongly about this.

I am the secret weapon my homeschool needs.

I’ll be honest, it actually feels pretty empowering to think of myself that way! Sometimes you have to toot your own horn.

But it’s not about me.


This is About You.

Homeschooling is one of my greatest joys, but it can also be incredibly challenging and exhausting. We homeschool moms give up careers and friends and acclaim to spend our evenings planning and our days correcting the same math assignment 17 times.

We moms tend to be hard on ourselves and focus more on our shortcomings than on our successes. And this is a really demanding, difficult, busy phase of life. It is a test of your endurance, courage, creativity and faith.

It will be worth all of your effort in the end. Homeschooling is probably the most worthwhile undertaking of your life. But it is draining, I know.
Sometimes it seems like everyone else’s homeschool is unicorns and sparkles, and yours is the smelly, slimy, steaming compost pile. I promise it’s not just you. We all struggle with this.

So remember this truth, friend.

You have created a loving, nurturing home. Your hugs are building strong neural pathways. Your sacred calling to homeschooling fills an unparalleled role in helping your children to realize their potential and make joyful transitions to adulthood.

You are imparting daily wisdom and joy as you influence your children for good.

Those little hearts and minds and hands that reach out for yours – they don’t want anything more. They just want you. You are everything to those little people.

I don’t know your strengths and weaknesses, but God does. He sent you your children because He knows. Those little people need YOU in order to grow into the marvelous humans God intends them to be.

You are important.

You are worthy.

You are everything.

YOU are the secret weapon YOUR homeschool needs!

From Webster’s dictionary: a weapon is a means of gaining an advantage or defending oneself in a conflict or contest. Whether you homeschool because you know you can give your children a better education, or an advantage, or whether you homeschool them to keep them from harm, spiritually or physically, you are the exact definition of a weapon.

You remember that when the going gets tough. You are equal to this challenge. The power of your influence will reach through the eternities.





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Learn the who, what, why, and how of the Second World War. Simple Solutions to High-school Level WWII History, Social Studies, College Prep, Critical Thinking Skills, Academic Research and Writing, and Spiritual Growth. A Faith-based approach with a global perspective. The instructor’s guide provides answer keys, grading scales, scripts for Movie Night, and discussion questions so a teacher can successfully guide their student through the curriculum.


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Newlyweds Piper and Peter return to Maine after Peter is injured on the North African front believing they are in for a quiet winter. When Aunt Edie sends them a mysterious manuscript, their vacation plans are pushed to the wayside. As the Adleman sisters struggle to find a place to call home, Peter and Piper must discover their new calling as the USA determines to remain neutral in the face of the rising Axis powers in Europe. 12+

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Peter and Piper’s quiet life on Honolulu comes to an abrupt close when Aunt Edie and Uncle Horatio arrive for a surprise visit along with the Adleman Sisters. With no foreseeable end to WWII in sight, Piper and her cousins learn to trust God in the unknown and in the process discover what really matters. 12+

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  1. Rachel Hasselbring says:

    Oh my goodness, these look amazing. I’ve been looking for some more good books for my 11-year old boy and 12-year-old girl, both of whom are avid readers. My daughter is doing an online independent study program this year as we transition to homeschooling for both kids, and I’ve been pulling my hair out looking at the curriculum and knowing I need to supplement. What a great place to start! Flight of the Seahawks looks like it would hold both of their attention, and I can’t wait to delve into this series!

  2. Oh my goodness, MORE books. Yay! 🙂 While all the WW2 selections look delicious (my fav genre is still middle/highschool historical fiction!), when I went to the publisher’s site, the baby story, “Hidden Treasures” really caught my eye. Now I have to read it, too!

  3. The Girl Reporter books look interesting…I think my daughter would love them!

  4. Tonya Sinner says:

    We love to read stories with airplanes. I would be interested in Flight of the Seahawks! Thank you for the giveaway!

  5. Charissa Reed says:

    The Seabird s Trilogy sounds good.

  6. Thank you so much for this!. Indeed homeschool is challenging. I also opt for a homeschool program in for this year for my child. and this is such a nice thing to read

    “You Are Important.
    You Are Worthy.
    You Are Everything.
    YOU Are The Secret Weapon YOUR Homeschool Needs!”

    Thank you for sharing!

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